SET YOUR LIFE-BAR & BE CLEAR ON YOUR LIMITS
“....If you don’t set a baseline standard for what you will accept in life, you easily slip into behaviors & attitudes & quality of life far below what you deserve...”-Anthony Robbins
One’s life-bar correlate with one's self esteem, if your life bar is so low, with almost no limits, it is just clear you think you don’t deserve the best for your self, your life choices are often affected and clearly translates into low self esteem.
My mother, Kekrine (RIP), Medium sized, not that tall but not short, fleshy with a chocolate skin, used to walk with a force-forward as though she was always edging to wrestle someone, with a deep authoritative voice that could piece through distances- believed in a life so big that only lived in her intuition. She believed and i know she still believes in being unique, setting the life-bar high above the routine and never settling for less. She did not believe in second positions, one has to be the best of who she/he is, there should be no any alternative or plan B in any situation A should always be A, it doesn't matter the situation.
Maama, didn't care how many people believe in her or how many people will cheer her up or how many people say no, all she believed in – is living above the basic and setting own standards.
Maama didnt believe in team work if you’re not teaming up with the champions and to her, champions were not determined by the physical achievements but on an individual Attitude, Maama believed that the right attitude can make you fly even without wings
To Maama, no one is a failure and everyone is responsible for own choices in life, therefore everyone ought to have a life-bar and should be bold enough to spell it out lest someone takes you for granted.
It didn’t matter whether you're privileged or under privileged according to societal dimensions, one must have the Dos and Don't s in every situation.
And that defines you and determine how others relate with you and the world will accept you for who you are.
Raise your standards and the Universe will meet you there” – Danielle LaPorte
Choosing to be a no boundary person, an I don’t care person- a whatever person-:To Maama, is hypocritical, toxic and self-failing.
Every one in life ought to have a limit-a point where you are able to say no, i cannot go below this- in every situation.
With a well set life-bar, the more clear your line of compromise stands out. It doesn't matter at what level of social class you are, you must have a ceiling on what you can take and what you cannot take.
It is important to be real in life, choosing no limit to compromise is living in self denial because generally everyone has a lower limit in life-the difference is the ability to clearly stand out and be clear on what you can and cannot tolerate.
Wake up and become that person, put on the persona. Make the choice that you will be mindful, every moment of the day, that you are a person of high confidence that has high expectations.
Setting a life-bar, is not about what you can afford to buy with money it is about what you can earn with your personality. You don’t need to lower your life-bar to fit in, no no, be clear, whoever doesn't match up to your expectations is not your type and you don't need to apologize for letting go...
Setting your life-bar will give you guidelines of your day to day life, create a personality you will be proud of when you're alone-
Repetition is the mother of mastery. If you want to be a confident person, who has high standards, then act like you are a confident person, who has high standards.
We are the sum of our habits. What you choose to believe about yourself and how you choose to act, is entirely up to you. Pick out your skin, try it on for size and before you know it you will have mastered the art of being the best you possible.
SET YOUR LIFE-BAR & BE CLEAR
#Nankwangainspirations
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“....If you don’t set a baseline standard for what you will accept in life, you easily slip into behaviors & attitudes & quality of life far below what you deserve...”-Anthony Robbins
One’s life-bar correlate with one's self esteem, if your life bar is so low, with almost no limits, it is just clear you think you don’t deserve the best for your self, your life choices are often affected and clearly translates into low self esteem.
My mother, Kekrine (RIP), Medium sized, not that tall but not short, fleshy with a chocolate skin, used to walk with a force-forward as though she was always edging to wrestle someone, with a deep authoritative voice that could piece through distances- believed in a life so big that only lived in her intuition. She believed and i know she still believes in being unique, setting the life-bar high above the routine and never settling for less. She did not believe in second positions, one has to be the best of who she/he is, there should be no any alternative or plan B in any situation A should always be A, it doesn't matter the situation.
Maama, didn't care how many people believe in her or how many people will cheer her up or how many people say no, all she believed in – is living above the basic and setting own standards.
Maama didnt believe in team work if you’re not teaming up with the champions and to her, champions were not determined by the physical achievements but on an individual Attitude, Maama believed that the right attitude can make you fly even without wings
To Maama, no one is a failure and everyone is responsible for own choices in life, therefore everyone ought to have a life-bar and should be bold enough to spell it out lest someone takes you for granted.
It didn’t matter whether you're privileged or under privileged according to societal dimensions, one must have the Dos and Don't s in every situation.
And that defines you and determine how others relate with you and the world will accept you for who you are.
Raise your standards and the Universe will meet you there” – Danielle LaPorte
Choosing to be a no boundary person, an I don’t care person- a whatever person-:To Maama, is hypocritical, toxic and self-failing.
Every one in life ought to have a limit-a point where you are able to say no, i cannot go below this- in every situation.
With a well set life-bar, the more clear your line of compromise stands out. It doesn't matter at what level of social class you are, you must have a ceiling on what you can take and what you cannot take.
It is important to be real in life, choosing no limit to compromise is living in self denial because generally everyone has a lower limit in life-the difference is the ability to clearly stand out and be clear on what you can and cannot tolerate.
Wake up and become that person, put on the persona. Make the choice that you will be mindful, every moment of the day, that you are a person of high confidence that has high expectations.
Setting a life-bar, is not about what you can afford to buy with money it is about what you can earn with your personality. You don’t need to lower your life-bar to fit in, no no, be clear, whoever doesn't match up to your expectations is not your type and you don't need to apologize for letting go...
Setting your life-bar will give you guidelines of your day to day life, create a personality you will be proud of when you're alone-
Repetition is the mother of mastery. If you want to be a confident person, who has high standards, then act like you are a confident person, who has high standards.
We are the sum of our habits. What you choose to believe about yourself and how you choose to act, is entirely up to you. Pick out your skin, try it on for size and before you know it you will have mastered the art of being the best you possible.
SET YOUR LIFE-BAR & BE CLEAR
#Nankwangainspirations
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