TRYING SO HARD TO BE RELEVANT WHERE YOU'RE IRRELEVANT:the irony of living for other people's expectations
Remove your expectations from people and you will have removed their power to hurt you:If you don't like something, just remove your attention from it, because wherever your attention is...your power is surrendered.
Every one has a life to live, persons with empty lives tend to push their negativity into other people's lives creating an impression of certain standards that must be met for another person's life to qualify...eeeeh if one thinks some standards must be met then let them practice for their own good.
Living by other people's standards is giving up your own life for nothing because most cases the people you intend to impress don't even have your interests on their secondary optional list of priorities.
They don't even notice your struggle to meet up to their expectations because they are busy living their own life.
When you live yourself, you will surely attract the right people who will see you as enough and appreciate you for who you are.
You're under no obligation to do what others expect you to do,Do something because you think it is right and you care.
You don't need others to hold your hand at every step in your life, sometimes you need to move alone, to trust yourself and have your personal appraisal based on your personal standards.
You are likely to mess up sometimes but when you listen to your intuition, your messes will only give you a life time lesson to better yourself.
You need to grow to a level where you allow your self to speak your own truth to yourself, even when all circumstances threaten your Independence.
Start to make your own decisions in situations instead of excuses-learn new things: never settle for mediocrity for fear of challenging yourself above the basic and generic expectations.
It takes a lot of courage to stand alone, but it is worth it, you don't have to be apologetic to be you.
Trying so hard to live up to other people's expectations is a sign of insecurity and shadows your attention from the people who appreciate the true you. #Nankwangainspirations
Remove your expectations from people and you will have removed their power to hurt you:If you don't like something, just remove your attention from it, because wherever your attention is...your power is surrendered.
Every one has a life to live, persons with empty lives tend to push their negativity into other people's lives creating an impression of certain standards that must be met for another person's life to qualify...eeeeh if one thinks some standards must be met then let them practice for their own good.
Living by other people's standards is giving up your own life for nothing because most cases the people you intend to impress don't even have your interests on their secondary optional list of priorities.
They don't even notice your struggle to meet up to their expectations because they are busy living their own life.
When you live yourself, you will surely attract the right people who will see you as enough and appreciate you for who you are.
You're under no obligation to do what others expect you to do,Do something because you think it is right and you care.
You don't need others to hold your hand at every step in your life, sometimes you need to move alone, to trust yourself and have your personal appraisal based on your personal standards.
You are likely to mess up sometimes but when you listen to your intuition, your messes will only give you a life time lesson to better yourself.
You need to grow to a level where you allow your self to speak your own truth to yourself, even when all circumstances threaten your Independence.
Start to make your own decisions in situations instead of excuses-learn new things: never settle for mediocrity for fear of challenging yourself above the basic and generic expectations.
It takes a lot of courage to stand alone, but it is worth it, you don't have to be apologetic to be you.
Trying so hard to live up to other people's expectations is a sign of insecurity and shadows your attention from the people who appreciate the true you. #Nankwangainspirations
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